Houston - We Have A Lift Off...

Social media is like a double edge sword - awesome for some things like staying in touch with family and friends, but not so great for others when it comes to bullying, spreading lies and half truths, causing arguments - and the list, unfortunately, goes on.

Recently, social media rang in on the positive with what transpired after "the people" spoke.

It started as what some refer to as just "a few social media posts", but it didn't take long before it went viral and drew in not just a comment from one or two, but a nationwide cry for change.

The Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo has been a staple, an icon if you will, for the state of Texas for the past 94 years. Nine decades plus of putting on a show that is based on tradition and family.

Social media quickly transformed the "few comments" into a conversation that has been long over due, not just for rodeo, but for everyone. The conversational debate grew so big, rodeo officials in Houston decided it was time - even though the annual event had already begun. 

The result - a code of conduct appropriate for a family-friendly event. What is and isn't allowed?

Prohibited Items: Clothing showing "excessive portions" of skin, clothing with obscene language/graphics, and excessively torn clothing.

Family-Friendly Policy:

The focus is on modesty, as the event has many children present.

Gang Affiliation:

No visible tattoos or apparel affiliated with criminal street gangs.

Enforcement:

While not always checked at the gate, security will enforce the dress code inside; violators may be asked to change or leave without a refund.

Suggested Western Attire:

Comfortable Boots: Essential for walking, such as cowboy boots.

Jeans: Well-fitting, classic denim, or dark wash jeans are highly recommended.

Tops: Button-down Western shirts (snaps or buttons), western blouses, or similar shirts.

Hats: Cowboy hats are common and welcome.

Accessories: Bolo ties or belts with buckles are suitable, though not required.

So far, it sounds as though most are pleased with the dress code and feel it is long over due. There is a "little push-back" from those who claim it violates/infringes on their rights - it is body shaming them.

One social media influencer hit the nail on the proverbial head. She commented that outfits she has seen so far she would expect to see at a club, or a Beyonce concert - not a family friendly event.

It is frightening who the role models and icons are for our younger generation. Beyonce, Jennifer Lopez, Miley Cyrus, Madonna, Billie Eilish, Lady Gaga, Justin Bieber, Marilyn Manson, Freddie Mercury and some gal I have never heard of until recently Chappell Roan. I do like some of their music but I can't "watch" it.

For some reason wearing less or wearing outrageous choices has become the norm to "sell" their music rather than rely on whether or not they actually have any talent in the first place.

Yes, there are some venues where less is considered the norm, but should it be? I remember a trip to Las Vegas with some family members. We were walking to the M&M store with two of my grandkids in tow, when there on the street were two women - buck naked from the waist up. I tried to bite my tongue, but it didn't work (as most who know me understand). I told them I thought they shouldn't be out on the street dressed that way when there are kids around. Their response - "it's Vegas", if you don't like it don't bring your kids. My answer? I told them then Vegas shouldn't make attractions and events that are done so with kids in mind. Yes, it is Vegas. Yes, it is more risque. But common sense says those who dress like that should not be out on the street where kids are - they should be at a venue that has adults - ONLY.

Common sense..... what a concept. If only there was more of that elusive commodity to go around. But instead of using common sense most go to the "it is my right".

Ladies, seriously? You want to be respected? How exactly is the lack of dressing going to get you respect? It will get you attention albeit not the right kind of attention. And that is the ironic part. Many of those who dress outrageously say they don't like being stared at, etc. They don't want that attention. I say if it quacks like a duck - it's not a goose - it's a duck. When you choose to dress a certain way, to act a certain way - attention is exactly what you are asking for.

So Houston - we have a lift off. And I hope it is one that will become a trend in this world. Common sense, respect, decency, morals - that is a combination I can live with. Yes, we all have rights, but using common sense is the glue that makes it all come together and work for everyone.